I love pole dancing!I get this comment often.The moment people find out I do adult work or that Im a stripper, they chime in with how much they love pole dancing!Which I LOVE.Because it shows they feel safe telling me their truth.The parts of themselves that they feel like they have to keep quiet is typically the first thing they tell me upon meeting me.Its one of my favorite moments ever!Because I live my truth out loud, it allows them to share their truth out loud.I also love when people make that comment because they assume I pole dance when I sadly do not. I wish I did!!!Pole dancing is hot and amazing and athletic and gorgeous and yet my diastasis recti doesnt allow me to do that kind of work. But I love that thats one of the first things people assume about me. Ill take it!Heres the thing:I am fully me.I am fully integrated.I dont live a fragmented life.I dont try to keep my professional work separate from my personal life.People know Im a mom and a model.A life coach and an adult content creator.A very spiritual and very sexual person.Im all of it!My muchness is my magic.My muchness doesnt deter business.It magnetically attracts the right business deals!My muchness doesnt turn off my clients.Its why they become my clients!My muchness doesnt keep me broke.It makes me a shit ton of money.Thats why I love whenever someone says to me, Omg I love pole dancing! upon hearing what I do for work.Its BECAUSE of what I do that theyre talking to me.Its BECAUSE of who I am that people hire me.My muchness makes me VERY attractive to all the right people and a major turn off to everyone else.Thats exactly how I want it!Im not here to convince anyone of anything.I am here to be fully me.And the more I am me, the easier it is to call in everything I want: new clients, TV appearances, new fans, more money, and more.Your muchness is your magic.THATS where the magic lies.Within you.As you.Being you.So be just that.: @happiertrigger
